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Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Happy VS Sad

Hey Hey,I'm sorry i don't update my blog often.Actually I'm quite touched when some people still care that my blog don't get updated. At least it tells me that some people still care on looking my blog. So thanks for y beloved readers. In cantonese : doh jeh sai~

Anyway,today no picture..too sad!Sorry lar,because I din have any pictures to share lately. But I can tell you what I basically do this few days/weeks. Study of course,attending class,go CC play l4d sometimes,go supper,play dota on garena,busy with rural camp,and keng gai lo.So basically nothing much to share la..

What I'm going to do today is share a topic. Happy VS Sad. Exam/Final is just around the corner, so I'm sure you guys will be receiving internal marks ady,or maybe if you start to study ady. Do you feel depressed when you start to feel like "Oh My God,I can't finish my study ady.What can I do?I'm going to die..." or maybe "What the hell am I doing in the test just now?I'm going to fail in my exam?" or perhaps "I should have get better for that score!". Well,whichever thinking will always lead to one result...sad,or in another word,depress! Well,that's fairly normal because people expect themselves to score better result! Expectation is high! But when the expectation is high, let's assume if you fall on a subject, probably you will get so depress that you think your future will be destroyed.

Well well, why not try positive thinking in counter of those thinking? Why not try these thinking "Well,I'm going to calm down,read as much as I can,and don't get stress up.If there is problem,I can always consult my friend/lecturer." or maybe "It's not I don't do well,it's just the exam paper is hard.Well,my friend says the paper is hard too." or perhaps "I will do better next time in order to balance my bad result." Isn't that thinking better? It may sounds that you are actually lying to yourself, but it will definitely makes you feel happier, or at least, you don't get upset easily. Why make you life miserable when you have another alternative choice?

I had get back my Microeconomic's internal marks today and to be honest, it's not good at all. However, I don't feel upset as I would last time. It's not that I don't care about my result anymore, but will the result change because I upset? Nope. So why upset? It's useless...You know what I think when I got my internal marks? I start to arrange my strategy.."OK,can't aim for A now, so let's go for B+ now.I'm going to start finding ppl to teach me micro, score better in the final." And that's it! (actually I do feel envious for the people sitting beside me,hahaha...). Another example will be the time when I watch my favourite football team. Well, if my favourite football team is losing, usually I will be very upset,don't talk a lot,and you can see there's "acid" around my face. (Ask my friends and family) But then, what I found out myself is that recently, even when they are losing/not scoring...I can still laugh...while my other friend keep on scolding "F..F..F"!

So, do feel happy. Happy makes u healthier, it makes your life better, and you won't feel everything is against you. I can do it, so why not you? =)

2 comments:

yen said...

haha..gambateh lor..as you said..be happy yea..

JaN!c3 said...

this blog really describe my thoughts right now..exam is just 2 days away..
i faced the same problem with u in microeconomics as well..perhaps like what ur those "perhaps", mentioning that i shudn't hope for A anymore but B++..XD
anyway, good luck and all the best in ur final...n me too >.<